Dear daughters
This piece of advice is one that someone gave me. During your marriage there will be times you find yourself attracted to another person who is not your spouse.
When this happens please do not feel bad, or guilty or like something is wrong with you. The reason we become attracted to another is to show us what we are craving.
For example, if you are attracted to a gentle person who is attentive and kind, chances are these things are missing from your relationship.
It could also be a way of the universe showing you a trait in someone else that you wish you had. For example the person you find yourself thinking of often could be very success in business or financially secure and possibly these are things you wish you had.
Once you can see the reason for your attraction, it will diffuse the sexual desire and simply leave you with an appreciation for this person and a new thing to work on in your relationship or to work towards in your own life.
I hope this helps x
Love, mum xx
Dear daughters 